Cheating Spouse: Are You Being Cheated On - And Don't Even Know It?

2006-09-21T13:58:00.000-07:00

Cheating Spouse

I have a question for you...

Have you ever noticed that when it comes to OTHER peoples
relationships, everyone suddenly turns into Dick Tracy?

Just tell them what's going on in someone else's relationship
and they will instantly roll their eyes and say "well she's
cheating on him" or "he's screwing someone else".

A funny thing happens though when it comes to your own
relationships. People go from being "super detective" to
being deaf, dumb and blind.

The reason for this is they lack OBJECTIVITY.

They cannot look at their own relationships with any
objectivity. They can spot someone in another relationship
cheating from a mile away, but can't do the same with their
own.

And this is the 3rd notorious mistake people make when they
think they're being cheated on.

You absolutely must distance yourself from your relationship
-- examine the facts -- and add everything up from there.

This is also known as becoming emotionally detached.

Let me put it to you this way.

Think back to one of the happiest periods in your life -- a
time where a lot of things seemed to be going right.

Now, if during that time one of your friends had come to you
to "lean on your shoulder" about some relationship problems
they were having (and as it turns out their problems are
identical to what you're now going through), what would your
thoughts have been?

Not what are your thoughts right now, but what would your
thoughts have been about this during that happy period in
your life.

You probably would have a different opinion about your
relationship back then you do now.

You see, right now you don't have any clarity, any
objectivity.

But you need to get it right now -- and bad.

Try to look at your relationship as if it were someone
else's. It's not easy to do, but everyone has the ability to
do it.

Do it, and you'll probably be surprised at what you come up
with.

Cheating Spouse

Cheating Spouse

2006-09-21T12:48:00.000-07:00

Welcome to my cheating spouse blog! Here we will talking about Cheating Spouses, and signs to tell if you have a cheating spouse.